How to Finguering

Finguering is the grand art of masturbating your woman's vagina with your own fingers. See our Female Anatomy guide for a detailed diagram of the female genitals. It involves much more than just sticking them inside her and moving them around. The most important thing you can have when going into something new is knowledge.There are web pages where you can to learn more about pleasure like Adult Alternative Club .It's also very, very important to have a partner who can talk to you about this and give you instruction during the act and afterwards. This way, you can both learn more about each other's intimate perks, secrets, and desires. You'll also find that if you make her happy, you'll be happier as well.

Digging a hole

Sit next to your girlfriend, with your head in the direction of her feet. Lay the palm of your hand between her legs, the tips of your fingers past her vagina, but not touching her anus. Pull your hand upwards, towards her belly, while your finger tips separate her inner lips. When your hand reaches her belly you make the same movement with your other hand.

Finguering

That's another thing- try to be consistent. You can vary your angle and fingering style sometimes during the session, but don't change every three seconds. And when she gets close to orgasm, DON'T change unless she tells you to. Get a little rougher and pump your finger a little further into her, great. Go faster, wonderful. But DON'T decide "Hey, maybe if I completely change my angle and rotate my finger THIS way when she's near the edge- every time you switch, it sort of knocks her orgasm back a bit, and that can be really frustrating for her. And most importantly, when she's getting closer to orgasm, if she says for you to do something, DO IT. Harder, faster, rougher, whatever- she knows what she needs!

Exploring yourself!

Talk to her during the act. Tell her that she's pretty, ask her if what you're doing feels good, tell her you want her and that you like doing this, that sort of thing. That helps keep the intimacy going, making her feel like a person and not just a vagina, and also reassures her that you aren't bored. Many women are sort of paranoid that the guy isn't having any fun at all- make sure she knows that you are. Even after you are done, fully clothed, and alone, make sure to remind her just how much you enjoyed doing that for her.

Especially right after she has reached orgasm, don't pull your finger out suddenly. Unless it's part of hard, fast thrusts (and usually even then), your finger should stay in or come out very gradually. Ripping it out all at once can be very uncomfortable or painful for a girl. Sliding it very slowly can even serve to tease, and make sure you look her in the eyes and grin when you do this. She should love it..

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